Narcissistic men seek spiritual women like moths seek a candle, but not out of love or a desire to transform. They seek her light to burn her alive. They are not drawn to her because they admire her; they are drawn to her because she threatens everything false about them. Her presence is not just beautiful; it is dangerous to their illusion. She is a walking disruption to the control they have managed to keep over everyone else because a spiritual woman cannot be faked, bought, or manipulated. She listens beyond words, she responds to energy, and the narcissist is drawn to that light with one mission: to extinguish it. Not because she is weak, but because she is powerful, and that is what they are afraid of.
Reason 1: Filling His Darkness with Her Light
That’s what he knows a spiritual woman does. She does not just see the surface; she feels what is buried under the silence and the charm. She notices the flicker of pain in his eyes, even when he’s pretending. She hears the tension in his voice when his words sound kind. Without being asked, she begins to pour her warmth, her empathy, and her intuitive love into the cracks in his foundation. For a moment, he feels alive again, but it is temporary because, deep down, he resents her for it. Her light makes him feel exposed, her presence calls him to accountability, and her energy invites transformation.
But that invitation feels like a threat to someone who refuses to change. Instead of rising to meet her, he begins to resent her for seeing what he has hidden. That is when he turns on her. The woman who once felt like salvation suddenly becomes his enemy, not because she changed, but because she saw him too clearly.
Reason 2: Believing in His Unmanifested Potential
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