Your happiness is simply a challenge to narcissists. They can’t let you be happy with or without them. This is really unexpected but it is a fact. The reason behind it is that true happiness comes from within, and narcissists lack all those emotions. The only way they can think of becoming happy is by managing their fragile egos and so-called self-esteem. Watching you cheerful without them means they are not more important in your life, and that’s the major trigger of their antagonism towards you. Narcissists think that you are not capable of what you possess, and they are the actual person who deserves all this. But when you leave them and they can’t keep themselves beside you, they start hating you. Now you are no longer available to them; you can live your life without them, and on top of that, you are happy without them. All these factors simply trigger narcissists to dislike you. They want you to feel their absence, and if you don’t, this is against their narcissistic supply which means a limitless demand for attention, admiration, and importance.
Number 6: They are jealous of you.
If narcissists are jealous of you, they will not only hate you but also try to make you jealous of them. Yes, it is surprising, but narcissism is a psychological disorder, and you can expect a narcissist to do anything to feed their egos. According to a 2017 study, people who have a high level of narcissistic traits, also called grandiose narcissists, induce jealousy in their partners to acquire certain goals and power. This shows that what a narcissist desires is attention by all means. If you are praised because of your skills or sweet nature, narcissists will doubt you, get jealous of you, and eventually hate you. Jealousy is a true symptom of insecurity or incapability to achieve something. So if you feel that your narcissist colleague is jealous of you, it means they are not capable of achieving their goals, and they can’t see you being successful either.
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Number 5: They are lectured because of you.
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