A key reason narcissists return is to prove they still hold control over you. If they managed to keep you in a relationship for years, they assume it will be easy to do so again.
For narcissists, winning you back is a personal victory. It reinforces their sense of power and allows them to showcase their dominance to others. They thrive on having control over people and situations. If someone leaves them, they will go to great lengths to reassert their authority and prove they haven’t lost their grip.
Reason #3: Narcissists Think You Owe Them Something
Narcissists often believe you owe them something, even after mistreating you. They may try to guilt you into resuming the relationship, portraying themselves as victims of your “selfishness” or ungratefulness.
They’ll attempt to make you feel obligated to repay their so-called efforts or sacrifices, even when these claims are exaggerated or fabricated. Don’t let their manipulations make you feel guilty—you’re not required to stay in a toxic relationship.
Reason #4: Narcissists Are Bored and Lonely
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