Red Flag 2: Sex Bombing
You will experience a frequency and intensity of sex that may feel almost unreal. This can start immediately and involve multiple encounters daily. She may emphasize how she’s never done this before, adding to the whirlwind intensity.
Red Flag 3: Micro Shifts
Soon after the relationship begins, subtle shifts in her behavior might become noticeable. She may ask probing questions about your past, especially concerning ex-relationships. Small negative changes in body language or facial expressions could hint that something feels off. Although she may initially reign these shifts back in, the impulsivity and emotional dysregulation associated with BPD make it difficult for her to maintain composure for long.
Red Flag 4: Vulnerability
Early in the relationship, she may open up about her past trauma or rocky relationships. If she knows she has BPD, she might share this with you, hoping to evoke your protective instincts. You may feel compelled to protect and support her, getting more emotionally invested. However, this vulnerability often leads to a cycle of neediness followed by emotional withdrawal if she feels even a slight shift in your energy.
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