Lying asserts power, dominance, or superiority by controlling the narrative.
Narcissists use lies to assert their superiority and maintain power. When they lie, they’re not just deceiving you. They’re manipulating the narrative to suit their needs. It’s a strategic move to put them in a position of power. They convince you of an alternate reality where they’re always right, the victim, or the hero. And you? You’re left questioning your judgment, feeling disoriented and powerless.
7. Avoiding Criticism
They fear criticism and lie to protect their ego and ward off critique.
Fear of criticism drives narcissists to lie, using deception to shield their fragile ego and deflect critique. They’re afraid of being exposed or judged, so they create a false narrative that paints them in a favorable light. You might catch them red-handed, but they’ll still deny it or twist the truth to avoid responsibility. It’s about protecting their self-image at all costs. They’re masters at manipulation and can distort reality to fit their agenda. When dealing with a narcissist, be aware of this tactic. Don’t let their lies make you doubt your reality. Trust your instincts and stand firm.
8. Fear of Rejection
Despite their bravado, many narcissists fear rejection and use lies to avoid being abandoned.
Beneath their bold facade, many narcissists fear rejection and resort to lies to dodge the possibility of being left alone. Though they portray themselves as confident and self-assured, they’re terrified of rejection. They fear you’ll see through their act, realize their true character, and decide to leave. This fear drives them to lie and deceive, creating an illusion of perfection to keep you hooked. They’d rather spin a web of lies than face the risk of rejection. It’s not about preserving a relationship built on trust and mutual respect. It’s about securing their ego, maintaining control, and avoiding abandonment.
9. Entitlement
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