18 Demonic Noises Narcissists Create to Destroy Your Life
Six: turning the TV or music up way too loud. When they walk into a room, they want to own it. One easy way to do this is to grab the remote control and crank the TV volume all the way up. The noise fills the whole house. You cannot think, you cannot read, and you cannot talk to anyone else.
They use the loud TV to bully you out of the room, or they use it to make sure the noise is the only thing that matters. It makes your hair hurt and pushes you away.
Seven: slamming down plates and pots while cleaning. If they decide to wash the dishes or cook, they make sure you hear it. They throw the silverware into the sink. They bang the pots onto the stove. They slam plates onto the counter with an loud crack—this noise is meant to make you feel guilty.
It screams, “Look at all the hard work I’m doing for you.” This is passive aggression. It makes you feel anxious and bad about yourself. You feel like you have to rush in and help them.
Eight: playing videos loudly on their phone next to you. You may be sitting quietly on the couch trying to relax. The narcissist will sit right next to you, pull out their phone, and play a video at maximum volume. They do not use headphones.
A loud noise from the phone completely ruins your quiet time. If you ask them to turn it down, they will call you crazy. They just want to ruin your peace. They want you to feel trapped next to their loud phone.
Nine: having loud phone calls on speakerphone. They will walk right into the middle of the house and call someone on speakerphone. They talk loudly, laugh loudly, and pace around the room. They hijack the whole space with their noise.
You’re forced to listen to their whole conversation. They do this to prove that their life and their voice are the most important things in the house. You have no choice but to listen. It feels like your space is being completely stolen.
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