Narcissists are typically stingy with money. They hate spending on their supply and often interrogate you about small expenses. However, a covert narcissist may be different. They might give you access to a lot of money, buy you a car or a house, and provide anything you ask for. It may seem generous, but this is transactional.
Let’s say they give you a large sum of money. Soon, they’ll expect something in return—whether it’s free labor or turning a blind eye to their unacceptable behavior, such as cheating. When you try to hold them accountable, they’ll remind you of their “generosity”: “If I didn’t love you, why would I give you so much money?”
This is financial abuse. Financial manipulation isn’t just about withholding money—it’s also about giving it in excess to gain control and power.
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