When it comes to sacrifice, you always become the lamb. If someone has to suffer, it will be you. That is how narcissists function. They don’t bend; they do not compromise; they do not share the burden. Their comfort must always come at your cost.
My mother, who is a covert narcissist, was used like a servant by my father all her life. One particular memory still haunts me. She had just gone through a colonoscopy—weak, barely able to walk. The very next morning, my father called my aunt and asked her to wake my mother up. Why? To make him breakfast. Can you believe that? This man wasn’t dying; he wasn’t helpless. He was just lazy and couldn’t bear the thought of making his own toast and tea.
This isn’t just narcissism; please understand. This is calculated cruelty—a complete absence of empathy. A heart so hollow that it sees a person, a woman in this case recovering from a medical procedure, as nothing more than an inconvenience to his routine. Now tell me, what kind of creature does that?
That is why I never trust these self-aware narcissists who talk about healing or change. I don’t buy it. You know why? Because their nature is instinctual. Just like a house cat that sees a bird, it can’t help but be a predator. No matter how well-behaved it is, it’s in its nature. A narcissist may mimic kindness, empathy, or growth, but the minute their ego is bruised, the mask drops, and the monster shows itself—fangs and claws, all of it. There’s always something in it for them.
Conclusion
These five behaviors tell you everything you need to know about the demonic nature, the evil nature of narcissists. Because no matter what image a narcissist shows the world, it’s how they act in these moments that reveals who they truly are. It’s not a personality flaw when someone screams at you for waking them up; it is not discipline when a child is humiliated; it is not stress when they steal from the people who trust them; it is not forgetfulness when they disappear during your worst moments; and it definitely is not love when they expect you to suffer for their comfort.
This is not normal; it is not human. I’m telling you, it’s not something you can fix because all of this is truly evil.
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