Narcissists are experts at creating chaos, both emotionally and in the environment around them. This disorder mirrors the turmoil they feel internally. By contrast, when you bring order and structure to your life, you directly oppose their influence.
Whether it’s organizing your home, advancing in your career, or pursuing personal goals, stability is the antidote to their chaos. A narcissist thrives when they can make you feel disoriented and powerless, so when you show them that your life is anything but disorganized, it sends a powerful message. You’re saying that their attempts to destabilize you are ineffective, and you are in full control of your life. This can cause them a significant emotional injury, as they see their ability to control you slipping away.
4. Use Their Image Against Them
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