A narcissist’s self-image is their Achilles’ heel. They are deeply concerned with how others perceive them and work tirelessly to cultivate an image of charm, competence, and success. You can exploit this vulnerability by holding them accountable for their public persona.
For example, in situations where they are forced to maintain their image—such as legal matters or public disputes—you can subtly corner them. If they present themselves as a loving parent, ask them to agree to statements that reinforce this image, such as “I always put my children’s needs first.” Once they’ve committed to maintaining that image, you can hold them to it. This tactic forces them to live up to the facade they’ve created, which can be excruciating for them, as it often conflicts with their true selfish motivations.
5. Focus on Rebuilding Your Life
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