They will block you on every platform and delete all those pictures, like burning them all within seconds. Normal people don’t do that. Normal people feel a lot of pain and think a thousand times before signing those divorce papers. Narcissists will just instantly do it like it’s nothing—just one more thing to do in their day. They leave or make you leave as if a flatmate is moving out or they’re leaving behind an old occupancy. They have no capability to be emotionally attached to anybody or anything. Everything they use is always seen as a means to an end. Everybody is an extension of the narcissist’s false self. Everything exists to serve their false ego, and this is proven when they leave you. They will try to force you out, buy you out, and fight for the house you pay the mortgage for, the business you built, and the empire you built with them. They will try to deny you any parental rights because they think you are a bad parent and will destroy their children, claiming to be the sane one in the situation. This will shock you because this is coming from someone you thought was a saint. You have to face the truth, and sometimes the truth is extremely difficult to swallow.
Scary Change Number Five: They Won’t Give You Any Closure
They won’t give you any closure. If you’re trying to get a hold of them, call them, or feel emotionally torn apart, and want to give it another try—perhaps go to church or involve religious people because you believe there is hope—let me tell you this: nothing, no power on this Earth and beyond, can change this person because they don’t want to change. They don’t see a problem with their behavior, and they won’t give you any closure. They will treat your children, your pain, and your suffering as a burden. If you come knocking at their door wanting to have that last conversation, they won’t listen to you. They will just use it as an example before their new partner: “See, this is the crazy ex I have to deal with.” They will label you crazy, saying you can’t move on from them. This is how they shape the narrative. You have to create your own closure because the source of your pain cannot be the source of your healing. You want to ask so many questions, like why did they do this, how they changed their interests, hobbies, the way they dress, talk, and live overnight. They won’t tell you how because they can shapeshift instantly. This is their behavior, personality, and who they are. You have to work on getting your own closure by healing your moral wound, which was given to you from all the betrayal—from the beginning until the very end. This leaves you with a lot of grief.
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