A narcissist will intentionally invite someone who sides with them, especially on a day you’ve taken off to relax. The house is messy, but you don’t want to do much because you’re already drained from their abuse. They make this move to push you into cleaning, to organize things, so they can claim, “This is what I have to live with. I do all the work, and they do nothing.” Nobody will understand your struggles or why you’re so drained. You’ll have to make moves to save your image, but it’s not narcissistic; it’s to prevent triangulation before it happens. The narcissist shows no empathy for your exhaustion, betraying the support they were supposed to provide.
Number Three: A Narcissist Will Intentionally Create a Mess
After you clean your house to ensure you wake up to a tidy environment, a narcissist will intentionally create a mess to destroy your joy. They create clutter to fill your head with psychological disorganization, making you feel out of control over your environment. They are your biggest enemy, always doing things to trigger your reaction so they can cry wolf and claim you are the monster. Their sole motive is to cause you trouble, despite claiming to be your partner and supporter.
Number Four: They’ll Isolate You and Then Blame You
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