4. You Are Mopping Up the Messes
Being connected with a narcissist involves lots of drama, rough edges, and quite frankly means that disasters are always looming. Narcissists usually aren’t good with detail, accountability, or sensibility. They fly high, seeking narcissistic supply and acclaim with little to no thought for doing the right thing. If your life is connected with one of these people, it’s usual that you will be paying their fines, sorting out their messes and dramas, and even lying for them to cover their tracks. It’s like this analogy: as you’re watering their back lawn trying to keep it green, yours gets parched, turns brown, and dies. This is how narcissists roll, and this is what happens to the sensible, well-meaning, responsible people whom narcissists like to recruit into their lives. By walking away from people like this, we can heal and restart our life with self-responsibility.
5. Your Boundaries Are Being Disintegrated
It’s extremely common for people with poor boundaries to get involved with narcissists. You find it difficult to speak up, stand up for yourself, or hold boundaries with this particular person. When you try to do so, you are often criticized, rejected, abandoned, or punished. You’re likely dealing with a narcissist. As a result, you try to minimize the trauma and mayhem that breaks out by giving up on trying to assert your needs. Maybe you’ve dissolved into so many feelings of powerlessness, helplessness, and despair that you find yourself begging or pleading for your boundaries to be respected, discovering that the narcissist has zero empathy for you and won’t comply. This takes you down into an even deeper place of helplessness.
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