7. When You Show Kindness
Narcissists want you to be as dark and broken as they are. They have experienced trauma, but instead of healing, they made choices that reinforced their destructive personality traits. They want to see you devastated and defeated.
However, if you remain kind and compassionate, even after their abuse, it shocks them deeply. Since they can’t experience kindness or empathy themselves, it makes them question their own choices and capabilities. While they won’t change because of your kindness, it leaves them feeling small and vulnerable, knowing that you, despite everything, did not break like they hoped you would.
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