Because of this, there are certain things you will never access inside that person. I’ve come up with eight questions that a narcissist simply cannot answer, because doing so would require a level of honesty that doesn’t exist within them. Let’s go through these eight questions, and as we do, think about how they apply to the narcissists you may know.
1. What are some of your deepest hurts?
If you ask a narcissist this question, they’ll likely look at you as if you asked a stupid question. They don’t acknowledge hurts. While they might occasionally point out how others have wronged them, they quickly dismiss it, saying, “That doesn’t bother me; it’s their problem.” They never admit to struggling or experiencing strain; instead, they blame others.
However, when you observe their rude, caustic, or mean behavior, it’s clear they’ve been hurt in the past, even if they won’t admit it. Narcissists believe that showing strength means never admitting weaknesses, which is something completely lost on them. In healthy relationships, we understand that admitting weaknesses is a strength.
2. Why is it so difficult for you to admit flaws and mistakes?
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