The second strange habit of aging narcissists is their attempt to cling to their youth. This can manifest in several ways, such as dressing inappropriately young for their age or seeking validation from much younger people, whether through relationships or online interactions. It is hard for narcissists to accept a decline in attention or control, so they are willing to do things to rekindle that spark and put themselves center stage, giving no thought to how foolish it may make them look. While I advocate for aging well and looking good, striving to maintain health and looks is one thing; believing you can compete with the younger generation or actively seeking validation from them is a whole different ball game.
Another strange and also scary behavior relates to their health. Some narcissists refuse to acknowledge that they are aging and that they might need to care for their bodies differently. On one hand, they complain about their ailments to gain sympathy, but then they are unwilling to take the necessary actions to address these issues. Some will reject medical advice or ignore real health concerns while fixating on minor issues.
The fourth strange behavior of an aging narcissist is their paranoia. Don’t get me wrong: narcissists are paranoid from the start, but this behavior only increases with age. They will believe that people are out to get them, assume and complain about others not respecting them enough, or have an endless list of conspiracy theories explaining why they are no longer successful.
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