Reinforcement
The female covert narcissist will entrust you with her most vulnerable experiences and information. She’ll do this very early on, talking as though you’re the special one she’s never trusted like this before. However, after the love bombing stage is over, she will start to act as though she made a big mistake trusting you. She will accuse you of doing things to make her feel insecure and unsafe—not putting her as a priority, not defending her, not keeping her happy and secure like you promised to do. This negative shift in her will be entirely your fault. The only way to get the good version of her back, the version that you fell in love with, is to show her and prove to her that you are good enough, that you are worthy of her trust and of her love, and that you can give her what she needs.
So, the female covert narcissist will be sending you strong repeated messages through her words and actions that if you want this version of her that you had in the beginning, and if you want the fun, the fantasy future that you envisioned with her, you’d better get your [ __ ] together and show her that you’re the man that you said that you’d be. So, all the pressure to make this relationship work quickly falls on you. You need to fix yourself, you need to try harder, learn her, and in order to win the long game, she needs to give you some hope.
The Narcissists LAST TRICK Before They Leave
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