So, she throws you a few crumbs here and there. You have a nice time together, a good conversation, sex—you feel like you’re getting somewhere, like your efforts are really paying off. But then, boom, something little, some little thing you said or did, sets her off, and again she’s disappointed in you, pulling away from you, blaming and rejecting you. Her sweetness turns bitter, no matter what you do. But through this pattern of intermittent reinforcement, you are being trained, you’re being programmed to believe that you are defective, you’re flawed, and you need to figure out what she needs. And if you don’t, you’re not worthy of her or anyone else for that matter.
Passive Aggressive
The female covert narcissist is super passive-aggressive. She will create arguments out of thin air by accusing you of being negative, being in a bad mood, having a tone, a look, even though you’re a hundred percent fine and nothing is wrong. She just keeps pushing to find out why you’re mad until you actually are mad. Or she baits you into fake fights by pushing other emotional buttons. And once you react, it’s all about that. Or maybe instead of accusing you of being mad, she may act upset but then refuse to tell you what’s wrong, refuse to communicate about it, making you beg to find out and beg for forgiveness without even knowing what she’s upset about. And after it’s all over, you look back and still you don’t even know where it came from or what it was about. And that’s because it’s all fabricated. This is an attempt to discharge her negative emotions onto you, keep the defensive upper hand, and keep you thinking that you are the problem.
How To Make A Narcissist Feel Sorry For What They Have Done
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