Defensive
She is incredibly defensive, and if you try to talk about something that’s important to you or something that’s bothering you, she will dismiss, minimize, or shut you down. In other ways, she will not be open to hearing you out or to any sort of compromise. And if she’s done anything to contribute to the problem, even if the entire problem is something she’s done, don’t expect her to take any responsibility whatsoever or to apologize to you. And if by some chance you do get an apology, it is a ploy to get you to see that you are ultimately to blame.
Careless
The female covert narcissist is extremely careless, impatient, and reckless with your emotions, especially if what is hurting you is related to her. So, if you cry or show your sadness, it will not faze her one bit—zero empathy. She will see it as a weakness and use it against you later. So, if you can fight any fears or past traumas with her at the beginning of the relationship, you can almost be sure that this will be used during arguments as reasons why you are the way you are and why you are at fault for whatever is happening.
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