You’re not failing at celebrating important moments just because a narcissist suddenly acts cold. It’s frustrating when you’re excited about something, only to have someone kill the vibe with their unexpected distance or indifference. But trust me, this behavior isn’t about you; it’s all about them.
Today, we’ll dive into the ten reasons why narcissists suddenly act cold during important moments. Are you ready for number one?
1. To Ruin the Moment
Narcissists thrive on being the emotional center of attention, and when it’s your moment to shine, they’ll act distant to sabotage the vibe. Psychologist Dr. Carol McBride, in her book Will I Ever Be Free of You, explains that narcissists are attention vampires; they can’t stand not being the focus. So, when your big moment arrives, they’ll freeze you out, making everyone wonder what’s wrong with you. Suddenly, the celebration is about them, not you, and they get the emotional payoff they crave. It’s a twisted way to hijack the attention and ensure they stay at the center of everything.
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