7. Lack of Empathy People with narcissistic tendencies often struggle to empathize with others. While most people can imagine how it feels when someone experiences pain or distress, narcissists lack this ability. Instead, they expect others to think and feel exactly as they do, and when that doesn’t happen, they may react negatively.
8. Splitting The final trait is “splitting,” a black-and-white thinking style where people are seen as either all good or all bad. This can lead narcissists to idealize new acquaintances or to completely devalue someone who has disappointed them. Splitting reinforces their belief in their own superiority by vilifying others.
Self-Assessment: Am I a Narcissist?
If you’re still unsure whether you or someone else might be a narcissist, consider these questions:
- Does the thought of being a narcissist make you feel concerned for others?
- Are you worried about how your actions affect others?
- Do you apologize when you hurt someone’s feelings?
- Does excessive attention make you uncomfortable?
If you answered “yes” to any of these, it’s unlikely that you’re a narcissist, as these responses indicate empathy. However, if you’re still struggling to determine your tendencies, try these questions:
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