They also hate the fact that you can heal while they will remain the same. They cannot change; they will only jump from one person to another. Faces will change in their life, but they will remain the same common denominator. But that’s not true for you. This relationship with them may have harmed you psychologically and in other ways, but there is hope for you. You can heal from this, emerge stronger, and become whole. You can find your authentic self. They can’t. There is no authentic self in them. There’s no inner child to be healed; it’s all destroyed. They sacrificed it a long time ago. There is a dead soul that is now self-destructing. They are emotional zombies, and that is what they hate. They know you can find light, rise above all of this, and become your best self. They cannot; they depend on others, and that is what bothers them.
They hate your authenticity. When they see you having authentic conversations with others, they become really jealous. Out of envy, they put you down, belittle you, and blame you. Deep down, they hate the fact that they can’t do it. They have to put on a mask to simulate a connection. Everything is artificial for them, but for you, it’s smooth. They hate it when you attract people through your authenticity and when people feel safe around you. For you, it’s effortless. For them, they have to be magnetic and charismatic to deceive people, but that does not last long and has no true foundation. That is not the case with you. You just have to enter that state of flow, and you see everybody wants to connect with you. That is what they hate, and they want to destroy it. This is why they fill your head with chronic doubt about your capabilities, capacities, skills, and talents.
They stain them and make you think, “Oh, that job? You were lucky to get it. You don’t deserve that kind of salary. You don’t have what it takes. That business? You inherited it. You don’t have the qualities to run it. You’re so weak,” and they laugh at you or smirk. Remember, that smirk is directed at their false self. Beneath that smirk is a crazy, insecure, envious, entitled, spoiled adult-like kid who does not want you to have what they can’t have. That is the truth, and that’s why you must not take their criticism personally.
In conclusion, they hate everything about you that makes it difficult for them to abuse you, that makes you indestructible. They love all the things that make it easier for them to abuse you and to weaponize your good qualities against you.
Weird Behaviors of People Abused By Narcissists
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