1. Don’t Be Stunned in a Negative Way
Narcissistic behavior is offensive and can bring up feelings of disgust, which are difficult to conceal. When first realizing someone is narcissistic, showing that disgust can start the relationship on the wrong foot. Concealing this reaction can be crucial.
2. Avoid Criticizing the Narcissist
It’s hard to avoid criticizing blatant, arrogant, and condescending behavior, but avoiding criticism can reduce the risk of narcissistic rage. Grandiose narcissists react poorly to criticism, and vulnerable narcissists are hypersensitive to it.
3. Compliment the Narcissist
Narcissists have an excessive need for admiration. Compliments should be sincere and convey a level of amazement. Mention how impressive their work is, compare them to famous people, and show you recognize their special qualities.
4. Double-Check Advice from Competent People with the Narcissist
When you receive advice from an expert, double-check it with the narcissist. This makes the narcissist feel important and valued, without you needing to follow their advice if it contradicts the expert’s.
5. Be Mad on Behalf of the Narcissist
Understand why they dislike certain people and connect with that feeling. Show empathy and sadness that others treat them poorly and express that you would feel the same way in their position.
6. Ask for Their Advice and Be Amazed by Their Reply
Seek their advice and show amazement at their responses. Spontaneous recognition of their ideas as valuable can have a significant positive impact.
7. Offer to Help the Narcissist
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