A covert narcissist appears burdened by the world yet believes they are exceptional. They subtly communicate their self-importance, often feeling life has been unfair to them. You might hear them say, “I take amazing photos, but no one appreciates them; I guess I’m just ahead of my time.” Covert narcissists often display passive-aggressive behavior and can seem depressed, leading others to mistakenly treat them for depression without recognizing the underlying narcissism. While their depressive symptoms may improve slightly, their self-pity and sensitivity to criticism remain. They tend to blame external factors for their failures, avoiding personal accountability.
2. Grandiose Narcissism
This is the type of narcissism most people recognize—those who are egotistical and constantly seek attention and validation. Grandiose narcissists often proclaim their greatness with statements like, “Look at my fancy car and beautiful house!” They crave admiration and may exaggerate their achievements to impress others. Despite their seemingly high self-esteem, they are often insecure and need constant reassurance. They dominate conversations, rarely listening to others, and their sense of superiority hinders genuine connections.
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