3. Make the Narcissist the Alpha and Omega of Your Life
Cut off all ties with your friends and family because, to them, those people don’t matter—they’re your enemies. You mustn’t share your relationship issues with your best friend who’s known you for 30 years. So what? This narcissist is your ultimate person. You have to keep everything a secret because the narcissist feels embarrassed, and you have no right to shame them.
No, you were made to be their doormat, and you’re the problem for not letting them walk all over you. So, become silent. Cut off ties. Don’t see or talk to your family. All you have to offer is your attention, validation, admiration, energy, and emotions—every bit of you must be offered to the narcissist’s godlike false self. You must forget the people who gave you birth, erase your childhood memories, and let go of the people you spent your early years with. The narcissist is enough to fulfill all your needs. What’s wrong with you? If you want this relationship to work, you must break yourself to fit into their mold.
4. Kill All Your Emotions
Become numb. Act like nothing impacts you. Why? Because living with them is like being stuck in a never-ending storm. There is no peace, no respite, and no relief. Don’t expect calmness or relaxation—it’s not coming. This is your life as long as you stay in it. This is your story. This is the fate the narcissist has crafted for you. You have to become rocklike, emotionally flat, and unaffected by both good and bad.
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