You’ve been seeing him for a while, but whenever the conversation turns to future plans — exclusivity, moving in together, long-term commitment — he balks. He may say, “I’m not ready for a commitment,” making it sound like an honest admission. He might even position himself as too hurt by past relationships to risk giving his heart fully.
What’s Really Going On: When a man repeatedly says he’s not ready for commitment, it often means he doesn’t want one, at least not with you. He enjoys the benefits of companionship and support without putting anything at stake. This leaves you in limbo, clinging to the hope he’ll come around, though he may never intend to.
Why It’s Questionable: Saying he’s not ready for commitment can be code for “I want to keep my options open but don’t want to lose the benefits.” This behavior is manipulative because it keeps you hooked, hoping for progression that may never come. You deserve clarity, not endless ambiguity.
4. “You’re So Much Better Than My Ex” or “I’ve Never Felt Like This Before
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