The most powerful thing you can do is recognize that your light was never meant to be drained by those who refuse to heal. Your purpose was never to fix them; your purpose is to shine. Healing begins when you understand that your survival responses were necessary but are no longer needed. You are not that child anymore; you’re not powerless either. You do not need to shrink yourself to survive. You do not need to lose yourself to make someone else whole.
Every moment you reclaim your energy, every boundary you set, and every time you choose yourself over the narcissist’s endless games, you are breaking the cycle. You are stepping into your true power. You are embodying what you were always meant to be: a light bearer, a change maker, a purpose fulfiller. The narcissist’s obsession with you is not a reflection of your weakness, but of your strength. They saw in you what they could never become, and now it is time for you to see it too.
You were chosen not for suffering, but for awakening. You were chosen not to heal them, but to heal yourself. You were chosen not to be their fly, but to rise beyond them. And when you do, you become untouchable. That is the destiny of the chosen ones.
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