Another hallmark of a narcissist’s lying strategy is shifting blame. They may project their own faults onto you or others, accusing you of the very behaviors they’re guilty of. This projection helps them avoid facing the truth and keeps you on the defensive.
What to watch for: When a narcissist blames you or someone else for their own failures or shortcomings, it’s usually an attempt to avoid responsibility. For example, if they miss a deadline at work, they might say it’s because their team didn’t do their part, rather than admitting they procrastinated.
5. Withholding Information
Narcissists are often secretive, especially early in relationships. They may withhold key details about their personal life, finances, or past, leaving you in the dark. This lack of transparency is a red flag, as it’s often used to maintain control and manipulate your perception of them.
What to watch for: If a narcissist avoids sharing important information or seems overly secretive, it’s a sign they’re hiding something. Over time, this secretiveness erodes trust and can be a major indicator of deception.
The Power of Observation: How to Catch a Narcissist in a Lie
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