The primary reason a narcissist can’t truly walk away is their need for “supply”—the emotional attention and validation they derive from others. In the narcissist’s mind, you are not a separate individual with your own life and desires. Instead, you are an extension of them, a tool for satisfying their needs.
Because of this distorted view, a narcissist feels entitled to you. You are, in their eyes, their possession. They believe they have the right to invade your life whenever it suits them. Even if it seems like they’ve left for good, they never view the relationship as truly over. At some point, they will return, as if nothing has changed, without any closure or accountability.
No Separation, No Accountability
The narcissist operates without a sense of closure. Even if they were the one who rejected you or disappeared without explanation, they will shift the blame onto you. They may accuse you of causing the rift or act as though it was you who pushed them away. In their mind, they are never at fault because they view relationships solely in terms of their own needs and desires.
The narcissist sees others as disposable, only valuable when they serve a purpose. They will do whatever it takes to achieve their goals, even at the expense of those around them. The impact of their behavior on others is seen as nothing more than collateral damage. Just as soldiers expect casualties in war, a narcissist expects their partner to lose out—this is simply how they operate.
The Narcissist’s Need for Control
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