Most people will tell you it was because of your codependency or unresolved childhood trauma that you ended up with a narcissist; that you were broken, that you lacked boundaries, that you should have known better. But I believe the opposite: childhood trauma is not the reason why the narcissist targeted you. They did not…
Narcissists are not the easiest people to deal with. If you’re dealing with a narcissist, you may wonder how to scare them. Like everyone else, narcissists have fears; they just don’t like to admit it. 10 Ways to Scare a Narcissist Out of Your Life Here are 10 ways to scare a narcissist out of…
When you do this to a narcissist, they will eventually break down and become your slave until death. Narcissists are always looking for validation from others to feel better about themselves. They depend on this support and provision; they cannot continue without it. They rob their victims of life force, health, and energy to maintain…
Have you ever walked into a room after a narcissist has been there and felt like something was off? You can’t quite put your finger on it, but you know something has changed. The air is heavier, the energy is different, and even though they aren’t physically present, it feels like their presence still lingers….
Many of you are familiar with Dr. John Gottman. He is a researcher who studied marriage, and frankly, much of his findings in that category can extend to many other types of relationships, whether in extended family situations, parenting, friendships, or businesses. In his groundbreaking research, he determined that the strongest indicator of relationship collapse…
If you’ve lived and engaged with a narcissist for a significant period, you don’t need me to tell you that these people can wear you out. The distastefulness of your engagement with them can be so strong and persistent that you begin to wonder if you need to get away from this person completely and…
Narcissists think they can accomplish anything. They walk around as if they own the world, don’t they? It seems there is no limit to what they can do if they can manipulate the right people, control the right situations, or fake the right image. In their minds, the sky is the only limit. But the…
When you enter a relationship with a narcissist, remember that it’s never about you. It’s solely about what you offer and the feeling they derive from it. So, when they discard you and find a new source of supply, their fear of missing out on something better consumes them. When another, more desirable supply becomes…
Why is it that every time you’re finally alone in the bathroom, the narcissist suddenly needs your attention? Why do they wait until you are in the shower, midway through cleansing, or quietly sitting on the toilet to talk, ask questions, start fights, or yell through the door? This is not a coincidence, my dear…
Narcissists are fueled by hatred, and they do not spare anyone when it comes to projecting it. They will find something to hate in the very things the rest of the world adores—things that make people feel warm, safe, and connected. They’re miserable, so they see misery everywhere. They hate anything full of life or…