Today’s, we are talking about one of the narcissist’s very favorite manipulation tactics that they use to escape accountability and shift blame for something they did right back onto you. It’s a dirty and very psychologically abusive trick. Today, we’re discussing how narcissists weaponize your normal reactions to their behavior, labeling you as “too sensitive….
Narcissists have their reasons for leaving their victims feeling lost and isolated, and honestly, it’s not by accident. If you’ve ever been caught in a relationship with a narcissist, you know the feeling all too well. One minute, everything seems fine, and the next, you’re left questioning your thoughts, feelings, and sense of reality. Narcissists…
A common theme that I hear in my counseling office is the theme of agony. There are times when people come into my office and talk with me about the pain and misery they experience, especially when they realize that someone they wanted to have a close relationship with has turned out to be very…
As you invest in your primary relationships, there are certain basics you want to maintain so that the relationship can provide the deepest level of reward for you. It can bring out the very best in who you are and who those in front of you will want to be. Among those healthy characteristics are…
Today, I want to talk about how the narcissist knows they have lost you. How do they know when someone will be of no use to them? How do they weed out the good sources of supply from the bad ones? Narcissists love having people around them, but every so often, they lose out on…
At first, he seemed perfect. He texted me all day, planned dream dates, and told me I was ‘the one’ within weeks. But six months later, I was crying in my therapist’s office, asking, ‘How did I miss the red flags?’” Narcissists are masters of disguise. They don’t show up wearing a villain’s cape—they show…
I spent two years believing I’d found ‘the one.’ He memorized my favorite poems, surprised me with trips, and told me I was his ‘forever.’ But when I got sick and couldn’t be his ‘perfect girlfriend’ anymore, he left me for someone else. The hardest truth? He never loved me. He loved the version of…
What if there was a way to make a narcissist expose themselves, just blurting out who they truly are—no masks, no charm, no fake humility—just raw, unfiltered narcissism? And I do not mean by confronting them or calling them out; no, that would only make them defensive, wouldn’t it? What I’m talking about is much…
Narcissists target you not because you’re weak, but because you are chosen. The universe handpicked you to be the light bearer, the change maker, and the purpose fulfiller. Your very existence disrupts the status quo, and those who thrive in darkness instinctively recognize the glow you carry within. They come after you not because they…
Narcissists are notoriously self-centered individuals. This self-centeredness gives them the illusion of importance and significance in their lives. Their personality often manifests in behaviors that flaunt their intelligence, attractiveness, and perceived superiority. They might engage in humor at others’ expense, make critical comments, or showcase a tendency to correct others. While some of their statements…