You do not attract narcissists because you have experienced childhood trauma, are an empath, a codependent, or a people-pleaser by nature. These traits might make you more appealing to them, but they are not the main reason. You are targeted by narcissists because you are a black sheep for the collective spirit of narcissism. Let…
Today, I’ll be discussing something that all narcissists do when a relationship ends—and how they plan for this from the very beginning of the relationship. This happens regardless of whether you discard them, or they discard you. As I always say, it doesn’t matter who the narcissist is—a parent, sibling, friend, partner, or boss—they all…
Kissing is one of the many ways romantic partners connect and is an important component of any relationship. When couples kiss, they establish emotional intimacy since the act entails feelings of connection and vulnerability. Remember that narcissists lack empathy.Do narcissists kiss?Yes, they do, but narcissists always have an agenda when they enter a relationship. Their…
Did you know that narcissistic abuse victims often experience headaches? It’s the body’s response to constant stress and emotional chaos. Living with a narcissist can feel like walking through a minefield, where you’re always on edge. This incessant mental and emotional strain doesn’t just affect your mind—it spills over into your body, often triggering tension…
Have you ever wondered why narcissists go out of their way to pick a fight with you and then have the audacity to turn around and blame you for the very fight they caused? That’s exactly what we’re unpacking today. In this discussion, I’ll explore six key reasons why narcissists engage in this behavior. Let’s…
In the entire world, discussions about emotional and narcissistic abuse are becoming increasingly common. Many people, including famous individuals and ordinary people, are now sharing their stories in various formats, such as memoirs or blogs. These stories often highlight relationships marked by emotional abuse and explore the patterns that emerge in such dynamics. This increased…
There’s a saying: “Keep your friends close and your enemies closer.” I’m not sure where this originates, but it is very fitting for narcissists, who are both controlling and manipulative. Today, I want to quickly explore the psychological and strategic reasons why narcissists adhere to this motto of keeping their enemies close. The key thing…
What is a Personality Disorder?Personality is what makes us unique—it’s how we think, feel, and behave. A personality disorder occurs when these patterns deviate significantly from societal expectations, often causing difficulties in functioning normally. What is Borderline Personality Disorder?Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) is classified as a Cluster B disorder in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual…
In this article, I’m going to show you why narcissists will always keep someone by their side and how they can’t seem to live on their own. But first, if you think this is love, you definitely need to read this article until the end. They’ll do many things and keep working on their goal…
When a narcissist decides to punish you, they give you the silent treatment and stonewall you. By doing so, they strangulate you psychologically, making you feel insignificant. They break your will and ensure you never say “no” again. But when a survivor of narcissistic abuse does the same—when they go silent on the narcissist—what are…