When a narcissist knows you are waking up from the psychological coma they have put you in, you are seeing through them. You are gaining clarity and you are about to expose their true nature. They pull one of the cleverest tricks to stop you in your tracks: they ask a very invalidating question that…
Birthdays are already such a funny thing, especially for adults. Anyone who has a social media account gets blanketed with birthday wishes on their birthday. I guess it feels nice; they get a lot of wishes. Most healthy adults generally have a take-it-or-leave-it attitude on their birthdays. Good people appreciate kind gestures made to them,…
Today we will be looking at why the narcissist starts caring when you stop. But before I get into it, I need to make it clear that this is only likely to happen if you are a primary source of supply to the narcissist. When it comes to narcissists, they have different categories for the…
Many survivors of narcissistic abuse struggle significantly with their wavering faith in the Divine. They find themselves wondering and asking questions such as, “What did I do to deserve this punishment? Why was I put through this hell? Why do I suffer while the narcissist lives freely?” The abusers move on from one person to…
Sadness is not the only emotion that stops you from moving on after the narcissist. It’s anger as well, and not just any anger, but righteous and sacred rage. Rage that manifests itself as the desire to take revenge on them, to destroy them. But you, being you, cannot stoop to their level and cannot…
Narcissists need attention like you need oxygen. They need it all the time. So how do they cope when they are left on their own, when they are alone? Let’s find out in today’s article by talking about five weird things a narcissist does when they are alone. Summary : 1. They love to lie…
Today, I’m going to talk about flying monkeys. In this article, I will discuss what to do when the narcissist in your life starts turning other people against you. For those of you embedded in this narcissistic world, you may know the terminology; flying monkeys is one of them. Flying monkeys refer to when a…
Ever met someone who is so extremely dumb that they don’t know how stupid they actually are? Ever tried to explain a new concept to someone who clearly doesn’t get it? Well, you’re not alone. Researchers have come up with a theory that explains why the less we know about something, the more confident we…
Dealing with narcissists can be highly challenging due to their propensity for extreme anger and volatility, especially during conflicts. While some may choose to walk away or avoid the confrontation, others try to deescalate the situation, which requires patience and strategic communication. Here are 16 effective phrases to disarm a narcissist and manage these difficult…
Being a child of two narcissistic parents, I can tell you that growing up around them was no fun. It was like getting caught in a storm that lasted for years, running a marathon with no end in sight. No matter how tired you were, you were not allowed to rest. You had to keep…