Today we are talking about the top 10 things that will usually happen when the narcissist or sociopath starts to figure out that we are onto who they really are and the games they have been playing. Let me first preface this by saying you need to be incredibly cautious during this time period because…
Narcissists are known for being manipulative, controlling, and self-centered. They’re also very good at lying to get what they want. You probably know this all too well if you’re close to a narcissist. There’s no such thing as a narcissist being honest about who they are, what they want, or what they feel. That’s the…
Believe it or not, the main goal of a narcissist’s life is to cause you trouble and keep creating problems for you. Why? To what end? Well, to keep you involved. The more involved you stay, the more they feel in control of your life, and that is what they want to achieve. This is…
I was sitting at my desk, writing a note with tears streaming down my face, a bottle of pills ominously sitting next to me. My heart was heavy, and I felt completely lost. Suddenly, I felt a gentle nudge at my leg. I looked down to see my dog gazing up at me, his eyes…
Narcissists are 100% done with you forever after they do this. Have you ever wondered if a narcissist can truly care about anyone other than themselves? Perhaps it is possible, but it is certainly not in the way we typically understand what care and love mean. When a narcissist has moved on from you, it…
In my view, there are five primary reasons why a narcissist will go out of their way to start an argument or pick a fight and then shift the blame onto you. In this article, I unpack the five primary reasons why narcissists pick fights, but I don’t stop there. So, what’s up with the…
Narcissism is like the rabies virus. When it enters your body, it doesn’t show any initial signs or symptoms, and you have some time, an incubation period, for it to grow, for it to reach your central nervous system. But once it hits you, once it enters your brain, you’re gone. Similarly, a narcissist gets…
A narcissist has to keep you in the dark dungeons of their control, keeping you in an absolute state of powerlessness and worthlessness to feel better about themselves. It is their heart’s desire to always see you suffering the way they left you, to reinforce their delusional belief in omnipotence. But when you rise from…
Walking away from a narcissist is like knocking the throne out from under an entitled queen. You see, the narcissist has built up an entire false persona around the narrative that they are some kind of royalty. Like an entitled ruler, they believe they should always get more than they give. So, if they were…
When we think of the dangers of a narcissistic relationship, the mind often jumps to verbal and physical abuse or controlling behaviors. While these are certainly harmful, the most perilous aspect of being involved with a narcissist is their inconsistent nature and hot-and-cold behavior. This unpredictability is what truly ensnares a person, creating a trauma…