Narcissists are strategic. They plan, they scheme, they think, and overthink every upcoming engagement or encounter. They would practice things they will say or how they will act to ensure that the right image of them is received. If the Narcissist can help it, nothing happens by chance. They also have certain time frames in…
Today I want to look at some of the things Narcissists do to affect your image or reputation. Because, a few weeks ago, I did an article addressing the fact that your image matters to the Narcissist and that is why they will always try to control how others view you, regardless of your relationship…
Narcissists live for their narcissistic supply, and the supply they get can vary from person to person in the amount and type of supply, meaning whether it is the dark or positive supply. The positive supply is usually a result of their fake image and persona. So, that would include receiving money, attention, gifts, compliments,…
Today I want to quickly look at the fact that Narcissists try to monopolize our time. Time is an expensive commodity that should not be wasted but Narcissists ensure that we do. They themselves are very protective of their time. They are careful with who they spend their time with and how. Their time is…
Narcissists make a lot of bold statements to deceive, hurt, and manipulate people. Their statements are usually nothing but lies, but if they are believed, they can have the most profound, even damaging effects. And there are things narcissists say in desperation to try and keep us around when they realize that they are losing…
What words can destroy a narcissist? Words that trigger their insecurities can destroy a narcissist. Names that they are insecure about, comments about their appearance, or anything that points out their flaws can be very damaging to their fragile ego. If you know what makes them insecure, you can use it against them to get…
Narcissists want people to believe that they are innocent victims. They want people to believe that they have done nothing wrong and that others are unnecessarily mean and abusive towards them. But it is because narcissists never tell the truth. So, for those instances when someone does lash out at the narcissist, you better believe…
Envy according to the Meriam Webster Dictionary is a painful or resentful awareness of an advantage enjoyed by another combined with a desire to possess the same advantage. Envy is something that anyone can be guilty of not just Narcissists. But envy is something that all Narcissists struggle with. And the fact is that Envy…
Today I want to talk about The Double Lives of Narcissists, or Narcissists and the Double Lives that they lead. I’m going to be sharing two main reasons why they do this and also some red flags you can look out for to determine if someone is living a double life. So, stay with me…
Everyone’s understanding of the narcissistic abuse cycle will be unique. While some people may have an easier time recognizing narcissistic behaviors like wrath or silent treatment, others may have more luck focusing on the phrases that narcissists employ. This prompted us to write an article in which we connected often used terms in narcissistic relationships…