Today I want to talk about current events and role of Narcissists because life has a lot of uncertainties and this is something Narcissists hate as they prefer to have control not just over people but every day events. They also prefer to bury their heads in the sand when crisis situations arise. They are…

Narcissists create a lot of their own problems. They are their own worst enemies. And although they want to control, they keep giving away their power. The narcissist does not seem to realise that is what they are doing. And not even the victims sometimes realise the powerful position that the narcissist has placed them…

Relationships with narcissists typically begin with a whirlwind romance. You will experience a level of intimacy you have never experienced before as if you are soul mates. They will appear to be companions who worship the ground you walk on. It can be challenging to judge a narcissist’s turbulent emotions if you are in a…

When it comes to narcissism, it’s important to know that someone who is a narcissist has what’s called a narcissistic personality disorder. And I have an older article that I will link below. I’ll walk you through all the diagnostic criteria because it’s important to know that people can have narcissistic traits without having a…

Narcissists are strategic. They plan, they scheme, they think, and overthink every upcoming engagement or encounter. They would practice things they will say or how they will act to ensure that the right image of them is received. If the Narcissist can help it, nothing happens by chance. They also have certain time frames in…

Today I want to look at some of the things Narcissists do to affect your image or reputation. Because, a few weeks ago, I did an article addressing the fact that your image matters to the Narcissist and that is why they will always try to control how others view you, regardless of your relationship…

Narcissists live for their narcissistic supply, and the supply they get can vary from person to person in the amount and type of supply, meaning whether it is the dark or positive supply. The positive supply is usually a result of their fake image and persona. So, that would include receiving money, attention, gifts, compliments,…

Today I want to quickly look at the fact that Narcissists try to monopolize our time.  Time is an expensive commodity that should not be wasted but Narcissists ensure that we do. They themselves are very protective of their time. They are careful with who they spend their time with and how. Their time is…

Narcissists make a lot of bold statements to deceive, hurt, and manipulate people. Their statements are usually nothing but lies, but if they are believed, they can have the most profound, even damaging effects. And there are things narcissists say in desperation to try and keep us around when they realize that they are losing…

What words can destroy a narcissist? Words that trigger their insecurities can destroy a narcissist. Names that they are insecure about, comments about their appearance, or anything that points out their flaws can be very damaging to their fragile ego. If you know what makes them insecure, you can use it against them to get…