“I’m losing interest in you as I get to know you better.”
Narcissists often devalue you by projecting their flaws onto you, claiming you’re the problem. By reversing the narrative, you assert that the issue lies with them, not you.
This phrase works because it challenges their inflated self-image. Narcissists want to be seen as charming, desirable, and superior. When you tell them:
- “Your inconsistency, lack of values, and impulsiveness are repulsive,”
you shatter their carefully constructed façade.
They expect you to blame yourself for their loss of interest, but when you say, “I’m losing interest because of who you are,” it burns their ego to the ground.
Conclusion
These three phrases—
“I’m losing interest in you,”
are powerful tools to disarm a narcissist and take back control.
“You are not my person,”
“You keep coming back,” and
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