- Their words no longer affect you
When the things they say—words that once triggered you emotionally—no longer have any impact, you’ve won. It’s like Superman deflecting bullets or Wonder Woman blocking attacks with her wristbands. What used to upset you now bounces off, leaving you unbothered. - You manipulate them ethically
You’ve learned to manipulate the manipulator. You let them think they’ve won, but in reality, they’ve taken exactly what you wanted them to take. You’ve removed your ego from the equation, and that’s crucial. Narcissists need to feel like they’ve won, and by letting them believe that, you maintain control without them realizing it. Sometimes, you have to let them think it was their idea all along.
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