Narcissists often make their targets reliant on them for emotional support, decision-making, financial stability, or basic needs. They isolate the target from other support systems, creating a cycle of dependency. Over time, the target loses confidence in their ability to function independently, deepening the narcissist’s influence.
6. Creating Chaos
By fostering unpredictability—such as sudden mood swings, contradictory demands, or manufactured drama—narcissists keep their targets emotionally off-balance. This chaos prevents the target from seeing the situation clearly, leaving them too distracted and exhausted to question the narcissist’s behavior.
7. Future Faking
Narcissists often make grand promises about the future—such as marriage, career opportunities, or other life-changing events—that they have no intention of fulfilling. These promises keep the target invested in the relationship, sacrificing their needs and ignoring red flags in the hope of a better future.
8. Mirroring
Narcissists mimic the target’s behaviors, values, and interests to create a false sense of connection. This makes the target feel deeply understood, accelerating emotional intimacy. However, this bond is based on manipulation rather than genuine compatibility.
9. Feigning Vulnerability
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