Picture this: You have just discovered undeniable proof that your narcissistic partner has been cheating on you—text messages, dating app notifications, maybe even photos. Your heart is shattered, your trust is obliterated, and you are preparing for the most difficult conversation of your life. But when you confront them, instead of remorse or accountability, you are met with something that leaves you questioning your own sanity. They look you dead in the eye and say, “What are you even talking about? I love you. I come home to you every night. You’re being dramatic.” Welcome to the mind-bending world of narcissistic logic, where reality gets twisted into something almost unrecognizable.
Despite having mountains of proof against a narcissist who is cheating on you or doing anything else, that narcissist will never believe they are doing anything wrong. No matter what evidence you present, no matter how clear the betrayal, they will feel completely justified in their actions. The problem is not that they do not understand what loyalty means. The problem is that their definition of loyalty is so fundamentally skewed that they genuinely believe they are being faithful to you. As difficult as it may be to understand, this is a destructive reality for many of us.
The Narcissist’s Skewed Definition of Loyalty
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