This does not sit well with narcissists…
Because narcissists are incapable of regulating their own emotions, their main goal is to cast their emotional instability onto you.
Consider dropping a package of Mentos into a Coke bottle and closing the lid as securely as possible. It’ll blow up because the Mentos’ reaction with the Coke has nowhere else to go.
Narcissists and their suppressed negative emotions have the same symbiotic relationship as Mentos and Pepsi.
When you’re in a relationship with a narcissist, you become a repository for their unpleasant emotions. When you start rejecting their negative feelings being projected onto you, it forces them to address their emotional instability.
This is a terrible feeling since they are repressing feelings like shame, remorse, and a tremendous amount of anxiety and insecurity.
They’ll try to trap you into an argument by using your vulnerabilities and insecurities against you in a desperate attempt to reestablish their appearance of stability.
If you fall for the bait, they’ll back off and criticize your reaction, which has the ability to drag you back into the abusive cycle if you can’t keep your cool.
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