3. I didn’t want this in the first place.
Narcissistic husbands always complain that they don’t want to be in a situation where things turn for the worst; whether it be a child, job, or any area in their married life. Narcissistic husbands tend to always complain. They always react to things that don’t go their way, like having a child, making dinner plans, and more things that give them more responsibility. As things go on, they will always be saying that they don’t want this in the first place, even if it already occurred. Expect this from your narcissistic husband always in the duration of your marriage and be prepared if you decide to leave them behind.
2. You should have done a better job.
This is the worst part of a narcissistic husband because they are very good at looking at your mistakes and saying that you should have done better. Even though they should be the ones supporting you in every trouble you have; be it at work, taking care of your kids, or doing housework, they don’t even appreciate everything that you’ve done for them. They never really care for you, your health, and your well-being. This is the part where they start to look for other women to flirt around with. Better watch your husband as closely as you can.
1. You should be the one taking care of the kids.
Who in the world doesn’t want to have kids? Most people want to be a mother and a father. They want to have small kids to take care of, but people who don’t want kids mostly are narcissistic husbands, why? Because it’s their responsibility for them. Most narcissistic husbands don’t want kids because they only want to spend for themselves. They only want their wives to take care of them, not their kids.
This selfish mentality is what narcissistic husbands want for their life. They want to be served or even be treated as a VIP. They just want the world of their wives always to revolve around them, which is why in taking care of children they pass that on mostly to their wives because they think that their wives are responsible for it. It’s better for you to stop enduring the abuse you experience from your narcissistic husband.
If you are in a state of having a mental breakdown, you must plan your way out of your current situation. Never again should you experience abuse from your narcissistic husband. You should continue to be free as a bird in life.
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