So, what happens when they realize that you are done? When they realize you’re not coming back, they’re going to be in shock. Yes, my friends, they will be really shocked because they thought you would always be there. Narcissists often feel entitled to your presence, believing that people will simply accept their behavior. They think they have an unbreakable hold over their victims. I refer to you as victims not in the sense of a victim mentality, but as victims of circumstance—this person’s behavior.
The narcissist believes that you are never going to leave and that they can continue their toxic behavior without consequence. They underestimate your resolve. For a long time, you may have been patient and resilient, thinking, “Yeah, it’s okay, I can deal with it.” But every person has a threshold. Once you reach that limit of tolerance, that’s it.
A lot of you are here watching this video because you’ve realized that you just can’t deal with it anymore. Narcissists believe you will continue to tolerate their behavior, almost as if there’s an expectation that you will. They may also think that you are playing a game, failing to believe you would actually leave. In the past, you may have reassured them that you would stay and work things out, but they’ve underestimated your breaking point. When you are done, you are truly done.
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