As for the victims of narcissistic abuse, healing is a slow and painful process. It takes strength, determination, and a willingness to confront the pain head-on. But with time, you’ll start to make progress, reclaiming the autonomy the narcissist took from you. But let’s address the big question: Should you forgive the narcissist for the havoc they’ve wreaked on your life? It’s a tough question, and before you even think about forgiveness, there’s a lot of work to do—breaking the trauma bond and rebuilding your life. It’s a long road ahead, but let’s be real: forgiving a narcissist is like expecting pigs to fly.
These manipulative creatures worm their way into your heart, leaving a trail of destruction in their wake. They don’t care about you; you’re just a means to feed their ego. When a relationship with a narcissist ends, they don’t just move on; they wait for the perfect moment to discard you like yesterday’s news. It’s a sick cycle, but it’s how they operate. They’re always on the lookout for their next victim to fuel their insatiable ego.
So, if you’re dealing with a narcissistic partner in a divorce, brace yourself: it’s going to be a long, painful process. Because they know your worth, they’ll drag it out because they don’t want to let go of the power and control they have over you. I don’t want to bring up any painful memories, but it’s crucial to understand how narcissists operate. They have this knack for sucking you in, draining your energy, and stealing years of your life without you even realizing it.
But here’s the kicker: when you finally break things off, the narcissist knows exactly what they’re losing. They’re fully aware of what you brought to the table—that special something no one else could provide. You were like their lifeline, their rock. But to them, you were just a pawn to satisfy their twisted desires. Once the relationship ends, brace yourself for the hoovering phase. Ever heard of it? It’s when they come crawling back, looking for more of what you gave them before: your constant support, emotional availability, and all that jazz. They’ll sweet-talk you and promise to change, but it’s all a ruse to reel you back into their game of manipulation.
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