You need not struggle with the narcissist to win a hopeless battle; you shouldn’t waste your energy trying to change their minds. Do not argue back. The reality is that success is impossible to achieve, as narcissists know exactly what they want. No amount of reasoning will persuade them.
When dealing with a narcissist who is trying to convince you of something that is not true, a simple yes or no will suffice. Don’t waste time elaborating; just say “oh” or “okay,” followed by complete silence. Don’t open your mouth. Be assertive when necessary, but do so calmly. Keep your cool and try not to react. It’s important to pick your battles carefully to avoid getting bogged down in pointless arguments and discussions. Remember that less is more when communicating with a narcissist.
Don’t give in to their demands. Statements like “that didn’t occur,” “I never stated that,” and “I haven’t done that” are all examples of untrue assertions. Keep quiet to show that you understand; just say “oh” or give them a knowing look. Your silence will often speak louder than words.
To say that their foolishness doesn’t affect you is to assert your viewpoint on the subject. This provides all the data needed to draw conclusions about their actions and words. You can resist their influence by not giving in.
Second, you should not have any hopes for them. There’s a price to pay here; you must be ready for a fight to be successful. You need to be truthful with yourself and have reasonable expectations of the people and things you engage with. If you don’t go above and beyond the people they have shown themselves to be, in terms of decency, kindness, honesty, and genuine love, you’ll be less likely to be surprised or caught off guard.
In conclusion, you have been bestowed with power and authority, even when dealing with awful behavior. Empaths tend to focus on the positive and loving qualities of others, but narcissists should never hope for this kind of result. Watch what they do instead of just what they say. Words are easy to say, but do a person’s deeds match their claims?
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