And here is where it gets really interesting: that new person they are parading around? Let me tell you something that will blow your mind: that new supply is actually exhausting them. Here’s why: you were not just supply to them; you were customized supply. You knew exactly how to respond to their moods. You had learned their triggers, their patterns, their favorite kind of admiration. You had been trained, groomed, and conditioned to be their perfect source. It’s like a drug addict losing access to their specific dealer who always had exactly what they needed, exactly when they needed it.
This new person? They do not know the rules yet, do they? They ask too many questions; they have boundaries that have not been broken yet. The narcissist has to work again, perform again, pretend again, and they’re absolutely exhausted. With you, they could drop the mask. With a new supply, the show must go on, and it is literally draining them dry.
The Obsession and Stalking Begins
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