That is not the concept here. The concept is narcissists have no boundaries, bodily boundaries. They do not respect yours. They are morally corrupt. They do not care about what is wrong and right and how their actions have consequences or what the impact is on other people who are experiencing them. Time and again, so many confused survivors of narcissistic abuse have shared a similar experience of witnessing the narcissist walking around unclothed without caring how it is perceived and how it looks on them.
When they were held accountable, they brushed it off as a joke. “Oh, come on, you’re being too sensitive,” or their entitlement was activated, including their grandiosity, and they made it more about, “It’s my home. I can do whatever I want. What’s the problem?” See, this is how controlling you are, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. This disgusting and disgraceful behavior of a narcissist leaves all of us bamboozled because we fail to understand why a person would act this way, have no physical boundaries whatsoever.
I remember one client sharing her horrible experience with me quite early on in my practice, and she said something along the lines of the narcissist used to come home quite early from his work, and then the moment he used to get in, he would take off all his clothes and not wear them until the next morning, which meant he used to stay in that unclothed state all the time. And then she would ask him to wear something, and he would laugh it off and say, “Oh, come on. What are you talking about? Don’t you like this? Don’t you like me this way? Have you found somebody else? Is there anybody else more attractive than me that you are interested in? What’s going on in your life?”
How to Beat a Narcissist at Their Own Game | Story time
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