And the first reason is that the love-bombing stage is very exhausting to the Narcissist. When Narcissist wants someone, although they are willing to invest some money, time and effort it is usually not easy for them to sustain that momentum of being totally fixated on one person for an extended amount of time. And we must not forget that Narcissist already knows what they want. They already have an end goal in mind. So, every compliment they give, every gift, and every act of kindness is to get them closer to that goal. The Narcissist does nothing for free and they try to give as little as possible to get back as much as possible.
 The second reason why Narcissists like to rush things ahead is that they want you emotionally attached to them before their mask slips. It is only a matter of time before their toxic, negative behaviors start showing themselves towards you. But the Narcissist wants that when that happens you would already be too emotionally invested and therefore be more willing to put up with their crap or let it slide.
 The ideal image that the Narcissists presented of themselves in the beginning, is what helps to keep us trapped that bit longer in these toxic relationships. And it is because they were such good actors and actresses, we were convinced that that good-natured side of them actually existed. But the Narcissist knew that the quicker they can get us wrapped up and tangled up in their web of lies and deceit the quicker they can have the control they desire.
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