Spiritual women do not fall for faces; they fall for frequencies. She does not see him as who he is in this moment, but who he could be. She sees the boy who was never loved properly, the divine spark beneath the ego, and the possibility of him being an artist, a healer, or a visionary who is hiding behind a false self. She falls in love with that idea. She gives herself to him with the belief that if he is just loved purely enough, he will awaken. She devotes herself to that transformation, to that hope. She believes in his future self more than he does.
But what she does not understand at first is that he will never become that version of himself, not because he cannot, but because he doesn’t want to. He doesn’t care. He wants her to see it, he wants her to believe in the possibility, but he has no intention of rising to meet it. The attention she gives to his potential feeds his ego, not his evolution. He grows addicted to being admired for what he never has to become. She touches his soul, and instead of being humbled, he uses that intimacy to fuel his performance.
Reason 3: Forgiving More Than She Should
Because she believes in divine goodness. To her, forgiveness is not a tactic; it is her nature. She sees the human in everyone. She believes that even the most broken hearts are deserving of grace. She knows that narcissists are made, not born. She knows trauma; she has walked through it and healed from it to a certain degree. She knows what it is like to be unloved, so she refuses to withhold love from others, even when it hurts, even when it drains her.
She believes that if she just keeps showing up with love, eventually the pain will stop, and the real man will emerge. He sees her forgiveness as an opening, as something to exploit. He mistakes her holiness for helplessness. While she is offering love, he is testing how far she will bend before she breaks. Her refusal to give up on him becomes the very reason he keeps crossing lines because, to him, forgiveness is not sacred; it is a strategy to keep her hooked.
Reason 4: Weaponizing Her Spiritual Discernment
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