She lives by spiritual values, and he counts on them to escape consequences. There is something unshakable about a woman who walks in alignment with her values. Her kindness is not a performance. Her compassion does not run dry when things get difficult. She does not love out of need; she loves from overflow. Even when she’s hurt, she tries to act with grace. She does not lash out, she does not seek revenge, and she holds back when most would explode.
He sees this as his chance. He knows she won’t expose him easily, he knows she won’t punish him, and he knows that if he cries hard enough, tells a sad enough story, or disappears long enough to stir her empathy, she will let him off the hook. He uses her goodness as a hiding place because she will always try to take the higher road and heal instead of harm. In her desire to be spiritually responsible, she will often give him a pass he does not deserve. He takes the very traits that make her divine and twists them into tools that protect him from judgment. In doing so, he turns her light into his shield.
The secret is that it was an attempt to sever you from your source. That’s why it happened—to make you forget who you are, to drown your intuition in doubt, to suffocate your discernment, and to shame your empathy. To make you feel that your softness was stupidity instead of strength.
But the truth is, he came because your light disturbed something in him that he has been hiding from his entire life. You did not lose because if you’re still standing, still healing, still feeling, and still listening, then your light was not destroyed. It was impacted, it was tempered, and it is wiser now, more precise, and sharper. The next time something comes to knock on your door, it won’t be able to get past the frequency of who you have become. Now is the time for you to fully embody that and to become your authentic self that you have been since your origin.
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